We broke out the clamps again last night.  Dom had set them up some where with the jaws opened a little to give me a touch of breathing room but it really doesn’t seemed to have worked very well.  I have to say that Dom’s reaction to the persistent problem seemed a bit at odds with his telling me that he was trying to loosen them up.  So today I’m in a bit of pain, it was pretty hard to have to wear a bra to work all day.

I’ve noticed that working into a BDSM lifestyle when both partners are new to it has presented a lot more problems than just sore nipples.  It seems that you have to be diligent in order to stay on top of things.  I have a pretty easy time of it since I’m a natural submissive but Dom often seems hesitant in his domination.  We weren’t watching as many BDSM movies as we used to and that has taken some what of a toll.

I’ve heard some people say that a submissive’s roll is to be purly submissive all the time.  However I have learned that is not the case.  One may have to “top from the bottom” in order to get a scene initiated.  You can put on your collar and whatever items of clothing your dominant likes to let them know you would like some play time.  You could also set your self at his feet and rest your head on his lap.  This is a very submissive yet bold gesture that most dominants would understand as a welcome for attention.  The idea that a bottom must wait for their top to make a move often leads to the senerio that I managed to walk myself into.

If your having problems getting your dominant partner (or submissive for that matter) to open up and let you know that they want some thing then it’s time to have a conversation.  It could be that you have two submissive people in the relationship and unless one of you is willing to be a switch and take that dominant lead your going to have a serious issue when it comes to a happy and healthy lifestyle.  Maybe you and your partner might want to consider looking into some instructional videos that give you some general guidelines to follow.  You wouldn’t have to make these your standard “rules of engagement” so to speak, but you could use them to help you find your own way.

I’m going to be looking for some instructional videos myself and the ones that I find helpful I’ll be sure to post so you can check them out.  If you know of some good ones, be a dear and give me the links please.

Image Courtesy: Sex and Submission

So I’m sure your wondering what the fuck you are looking at.  Don’t worry I felt the very same way when I first saw this pic.  But as luck would have it this is the lovely and some what masochistic Madison Young.  As you all know I’m a big fan of her work so when I stumbled across this lovely gem I had to see what the hell was going on.  True to Sex and Submission apparent credo to torture poor submissive women Ms. Madison goes through the requisite pain and delivers a stunning performance.  If your into elctro stim stuff then you just have to see this video!

I know I posted earlier but I was just at Kink on Demand checking out how every thing works.  Normally I just get my videos from one of Kinks sites, but I have that big ass Kink On Demand banner on the site and stuff I thought I would see what I was trying to get you guys into.

It’s freakin’ awesome!  So you can buy Kinks or credits for pay per view watching or you can buy the full video and keep it for your very own.  Personally I like buying kinks because I can preview the videos and see if I want to buy them.  These guys have over 3,000 videos and are always adding more.  I know I’m starting to sound like a spokesperson for the Kink sites.  I don’t mean to but you know it’s really hard to find great BDSM videos.

If your new like me to the lifestyle buying credits is a great way to go because you don’t have to commit $30.00 to get a membership to a site that might not be to your liking.  With pay-per-minute you can see if you like what’s happening and if you don’t  you just stop watching and your not billed another fucking dime.  We all know of some site or another that rooked us for a full month or multiple months even after trying to cancel.  Doesn’t happn with ppv!

So if your interested here is the link to Kink On Demand.  Post a comment and let me know what you thought of their set up and content.

Image Courtesy: Sex and Submission

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By: Oceania

© 2000 all rights reserved.
January 24th. I received an e-mail from you, it read

“a key will be waiting for you at the front desk. Be there promptly at 4pm.
Do not respond to this note! Remember 3 things, do as you are told. your
code words. and that you are mine.”

Reading those last words made me wet. (more…)

I know this is a little different from my usual offerings, but you have to admit that this picture is truly fascinating to look at.  I’ve watched a number of the Water Bondage films now and I have to say that Lew is really starting to catch my attention.  I find the site is one that can be enjoyed not just by those who love water play but it also is quite titilating for those who enjoy hard core bondage as well.

Image Courtesy: Water Bondage

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